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Trying Your Best When There’s Little To No Chance Of Succeeding

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If you knew that no matter how hard you tried, success was impossible or practically impossible, would you still push yourself to the limit? Or would you rationally pivot to another endeavor with a real chance of success? Personally, if the odds were overwhelmingly against me, I’m not sure I’d bother trying so hard.

Since my kids were born, I’ve noticed a growing trend: highly academic Asian American students with stellar GPAs and top SAT scores getting rejected from most of their top-choice colleges. This is common for many students, especially as admissions rates plummet due in part to the ease of applying through the Common App. However, the challenge seems even more pronounced for Asian applicants.

Although Asian Americans make up only about 7% of the U.S. population, they aren’t considered a minority group eligible for preferential treatment in college admissions, jobs, or promotions. Instead, based on average SAT and ACT scores by race, it appears they must score higher than other groups just to have an equal chance of acceptance. The Supreme Court acknowledged this disparity when it ruled against affirmative action on June 29, 2023.

When diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) became a dominant movement after George Floyd’s killing in 2020, Asian Americans were largely left out of the racial justice conversation—even though they, too, have faced discrimination and hate. I get it—Asians have the highest median income among all racial groups, so why prioritize a group that’s perceived as doing well?

But what if you’re a poor Asian from a broken family? In that case, you might just be out of luck. Your only solution is to just try harder.

Students Could Have Enjoyed Life More

During the pandemic, I had an epiphany: What’s the point of my kids studying so hard if their chances of getting into a top college—and landing a promising job afterward—are slim to none?

Instead of stressing over straight As, top SAT scores, varsity sports, club leadership, and curing cancer, why not let them fully enjoy their youth? All this intense stress to get into a top college doesn’t seem healthy.

The rise in depression and anxiety among high school students is alarming, with many feeling relentless pressure to excel. Some even take their own lives because they don’t feel good enough academically. We cannot let that happen. I refuse to let my daughter and son suffer under the weight of status and money at the expense of their well-being.

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A Better, Happier Childhood When You Have No Chance

Imagine waking up excited to go to school—not for grades, but for the sake of learning. You’d focus on subjects you care about and do just enough to pass the ones you don’t like the quiet quitters today. Since the odds of getting into a top 25 university are so low, you’d be content with a B-average and a sub 1,200 SAT score. With lower expectations, you’d feel grateful for whatever college you do get into.

What a fantastic K-12 experience! I was all in on this idea—no Tiger Dad pressure, no pushing my kids to grind for a top-tier university just to buy an expensive house close to work to become bankers working under fluorescent lights for 60 hours a week. I’ve been there, and it’s not fun, even if the money was good.

Instead, they could go to community college, save a fortune, and pursue careers they actually enjoy. And with the $700,000+ each that would have otherwise gone to private university tuition, I’d find a way to gift them financial security early.

Then things changed in 2025. Intense merit-based rewards came back into focus under the new administration.

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The Analogy Of Lower Taxes Hurting Your Lifestyle

To help explain the negative of merit-based reward, let’s look at tax policy as an example.

When taxes are cut, people work harder because they get to keep more of their earnings. In theory, this is great—especially if the government has been wasting taxpayer dollars.

But the problem with working harder and longer is that money is addictive. Many people don’t know when to stop, even after they have enough. Fast-forward 40 years, and the rich banker or techie might wonder why they spent so much time chasing money when they could have been doing something more fulfilling.

I see this addiction to wealth every day through Financial Samurai. People worth millions of dollars struggling to be happy. It’s extremely hard to quit making money, even if you hate your job. That’s why I started writing about FIRE in 2009—to give people the courage and financial framework to walk away from work they despise and do something they love.

Yes, making a lot of money and investing wisely is great. But if you keep sacrificing time for more money when you already have enough or are on track to die with plenty, it’s a damn shame.

I left work in 2012, partly because I didn’t want to pay ~40% of my income to the government for the privilege of working 60 hours a week and feeling constantly stressed. So in a way, I’m thankful for President Obama for raising my federal marginal income tax rate to 39.6% and giving me the incentive to break free. Paying another 12.3% tax to California plus another 7.2% in FICA tax was simply not worth it anymore.

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Merit-Based Reward Can Also Hurt Your Lifestyle

On the surface, rewarding people based solely on merit sounds fair. But it could also be a trap for the most ambitious among us.

When people realize they can get ahead by outworking their peers, they’ll do just that. A 60-hour workweek turns into 70 hours. Then 80. Then 90. The arms race for more never ends until we make it stop.

Just like money addiction is hard to quit, merit-based competition is, too. When you know effort directly correlates with reward, it’s tough to hold back. If I was paid based on performance at my old job at Credit Suisse, I would have for sure lasted for at least another 5-10 years.

Today, if I knew I could outpace AI from stealing my content just by writing more, I’d keep going indefinitely. But I recognize my window of opportunity may be closing fast. That’s why I’ve invested in the very companies working to make me obsolete. If they’re going to take away my retirement dream, at least I plan to profit in the process!

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Rejected Asian American Goes Straight To A Dream Job

Take Stanley Zhong. He had a 3.97 unweighted GPA, a 4.42 weighted GPA, and a near-perfect 1590 SAT score at Gunn High School. He even founded his own document-signing startup and tutored underserved kids in coding.

Yet, he was rejected by 16 colleges, including MIT, Carnegie Mellon, Stanford, UC Berkeley, UCLA, UCSD, UCSB, UC Davis, Cal Poly San Luis Obispo, Cornell University, University of Illinois, University of Michigan, Georgia Tech, Caltech, University of Washington and University of Wisconsin.

UC Davis has a 42% acceptance rate for goodness sake! Did Stanley write something offensive in all his essays? That would be hard to believe given he has such a thoughtful father and helpful school counselors.

When I first heard the news in 2023, I was stunned. Stanley could have been my son. And if he wasn’t good enough, what chance did my kids have? Less than 1% of students can achieve the academic scores Stanley achieved. For a moment, I felt defeated. Why bother trying? Top universities will simply use subjective reasons such as personality scores to explain why a student was rejected.

But then something remarkable happened.

Instead of going to college, Stanley landed a PhD-level engineering role at Google—a job most computer science grads from the very schools that rejected him would kill for. Making $200,000+ right out of high school is a dream come true.

Stanley proved his naysayers wrong. Although, his dad also works at Google, so maybe dad was able to help out in some way.

Building Skills Becomes En Vogue Again

His story made me reconsider. Merit won out in the end—not in college admissions, but in the job market, the ultimate end goal. Businesses, unlike universities, need the best workers to create the best products and maximize profits.

If the most elite employers with the largest balance sheets like Google and Meta can no longer afford to ignore merit, the same will happen across smaller companies. Merit is even more important if you are an entrepreneur. There is nowhere to hide if you’re the one doing most of the work.

Then, in February 2025, Stanley and his father sued the University of California for racial discrimination. Despite all the hate they received, they pressed forward for future Asian American students who might face the same bias. Personally, I don’t think they will win since Asians make up around 36% of the student population at the UC system, yet account for 19% of California high school graduates who met UC admission requirements.

But if they win, it could mean more qualified Asian Americans will get into public universities that receive government funding. Can you imagine paying property taxes for 18 years only for your straight-A kids to get rejected? Ultimately, a lawsuit victory should benefit the best students of all races as they wouldn’t have to be worried as much about subjective factors dying them anymore.

So, that crazy dream I had—of Asian American kids enjoying a low-stress, joyful childhood—might have to wait. For now, merit is back in focus, which means long hours of studying, intense competition in extracurriculars, and enormous pressure. If we decide to go this route, parents must always be encouraging and supportive.

Treat Your Parents Well

Regardless of what happens, one truth remains: be good to your parents.

Colleges and employers may reject you, but your parents likely never will. They’ll do whatever it takes to give you opportunities and, ultimately, ensure that you’re happy.

And if they’ve been smart with their money—investing through a mostly bull market—they might have more wealth than you realize. When the time comes for college, a car, or even a house, they might just cover everything for you.

As a parent myself, I constantly battle the urge to give my kids everything. But I know that if I do, I risk making them entitled and soft.

Still, if my son and daughter grow into responsible, kind adults who choose careers that genuinely help others, it’ll be tough not to give them financial support when they need it.

When Your Best Is Not Good Enough: Keep On Going

So no matter your race, your best bet is to keep striving even if you have little-to-no chance of succeeding. Your pride is at stake. Even if you face rejection after rejection, remember—rejection is just the price of success.

Keep pushing. Keep grinding. This is a million-dollar mindset worth adopting. Recognize the world will never be fair. Accept it! Even when the odds are stacked against you, your hard work will eventually pay off in ways that are hard to forecast.

Readers, how do you feel about trying your best despite the long odds of success? Are you disappointed about the hyper focus on merit, or do you welcome the increased incentive to work hard? Why do you think students like Stanley Zhong, with near-perfect academic records, get rejected by so many top colleges? Does this prove the importance of writing good essays?

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The One Mistake Is Putting Your Brand Reputation at Risk — and Most Startups Still Make It

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Most entrepreneurs and business owners understand they need a comprehensive communications strategy to reach their target customers. However, all too many think that only means branding, marketing and advertising and forget to include public relations (PR). In particular, many small businesses and startups neglect this part of the communications equation.

This has always been a mistake, but that’s even more true today. Here, I explain how PR impacts brand credibility and customer trust, as well as how those seemingly ineffable factors connect to your hard revenue numbers.

The problem with investing solely in marketing

Investing only in marketing and ignoring PR is a problem because marketing drives awareness, but PR builds trust — and without trust, awareness doesn’t convert.

One study has put the number of consumers who believe advertisers have integrity at 4%. Customers’ trust in conventional advertising is also plummeting, especially for members of the younger generations. As Wharton Magazine reports, 84% of millennials not only dislike traditional ads but also distrust them.

Research also shows people don’t pay attention to ads and actively avoid them. According to consumer research firm Bulbshare, 63% of Gen Zers use ad blockers, meaning they don’t even see ads online. If they do come across one, 99% say they hit “skip” when given the choice.

In short, today’s consumers are savvy. They know how to follow the money trail and identify conflicts of interest. Indeed, the Content Marketing Institute has found that 80% of corporate decision-makers prefer to glean information from articles that are more objective rather than ads, which are recognized as biased and self-interested.

Meanwhile, today’s consumers increasingly prioritize ethics. B2B services company BusinessDasher explains that 84% of customers weigh companies’ ethics and values when considering a purchase, and 63% say they would like companies to adopt more ethical practices.

For companies that would like to expand their market reach, these statistics send a clear signal. Investing only in advertising and marketing is unlikely to move the needle. To develop a good reputation for your brand, you need to do PR.

Related: How to Make the Most of Your Public Relations

PR: Ethical strategic communications

PR differs from other communication strategies like branding and marketing because it specifically focuses on developing your organization’s positive reputation and earning consumers’ trust. While ads and marketing campaigns may attempt to tell people about the business’s great reputation, good PR shows them. It enables the business and its spokespeople to demonstrate ethical conduct rather than just making claims to this effect.

For instance, while a top PR team will draft and release press releases and media advisories on a company’s behalf, they will also seek out opportunities for the company’s leadership to serve as expert sources in the media. When the public needs help understanding current events and a journalist turns to a company’s spokesperson for expert analysis, the viewers understand that this person and their company are trustworthy. In addition, they come to rely on and appreciate the spokesperson’s valuable advice.

In the course of such an interview, the company’s representative may never even mention their product or service. By demonstrating their willingness to share important information, however, they signal their care for the greater good, their own sterling character and that of their company. This forms positive connotations in viewers’ minds. People come to associate the spokesperson and company with credibility and garner their trust.

Behaving in an ethical manner and showing goodwill tends to be more convincing than merely claiming to be good. This is how strong connections with customers can still be forged despite today’s cynical environment.

Related: How You Can Leverage These PR Strategies to Build Your Company’s Credibility and Trust — Even When Under Attack

How PR contributes to revenue growth

To be clear, PR is not a direct method of boosting sales or generating leads. Instead, it works in the background, burnishing your brand’s reputation and predisposing people to think highly of your company. This can pay off in the end, however.

Take Sears, Roebuck and Co. as an example. When the brand partnered with The Oprah Winfrey Show to provide Christmas gifts for 100 foster children, the results were staggering. After the episode aired, customer surveys showed an 11% jump in positive sentiment toward the brand — and people said they planned to spend 39% more at Sears.

The final impact? That single PR moment helped generate $13 million in new revenue.

In addition, father-daughter co-authors Al and Laura Ries studied 91 launches of new products in their book “The Fall of Advertising and the Rise of PR.” Those campaigns that incorporated PR were more successful than those that only deployed marketing approaches. Indeed, they conclude that PR is a better investment than advertising for most businesses.

In my own experience leading a PR firm, I can attest that campaigns sometimes generate so much new business that clients can’t scale fast enough and have to pause our services while they catch up with demand.

Enter the limelight with PR

Hiring a PR firm, especially one that can show a track record of success in your particular industry, is indispensable to make your brand image shine. This strategic communications approach avoids the common missteps of advertising and marketing while aligning with today’s customers’ preferences for ethical business practices.

For these reasons, more businesses should consider taking PR firms up on their offers of a free consultation call. There’s nothing to lose and the limelight to gain.

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If You’re Using ChatGPT This Way, You’re Doing It Wrong

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By now, most marketers have experimented with ChatGPT. You’ve probably asked it to write a blog outline, draft a few email subject lines or generate some Instagram captions. But if you’re still treating it like a vending machine — insert prompt, get content — you’re leaving a ton of value on the table.

The real power comes from what we call “prompt conversations”: a deliberate, iterative back-and-forth between you and the AI, where each response informs your next prompt. It’s not about asking for the perfect output upfront. It’s about collaborating with ChatGPT to create something better, faster — and often, more original than you could’ve come up with in isolation.

Here’s how to make that shift.

Related: 3 Tips to Know Before Using ChatGPT for Marketing

Think in stages, not prompts

Instead of expecting one prompt to give you a finished piece of content, break your process into phases: ideation, structure, drafting and refinement. ChatGPT shines when it has context, and a conversation gives it exactly that.

Let’s say you’re writing a blog post on cybersecurity for small businesses. Don’t just prompt: “Write a 1,000-word blog post on cybersecurity tips for small businesses.” That’ll get you something generic.

Instead:

  1. Start with a role and outcome prompt: “Act as a content strategist. Give me five timely blog post angles on cybersecurity for small businesses.”

  2. Follow up: “Take the second idea and create a blog outline with an intro, three main sections and a conclusion.”

  3. Draft in pieces: “Now write the intro in a conversational tone. Mention a recent news event that makes this topic urgent.”

Each step improves quality and gives you control. Plus, it allows you to correct course if the AI veers too far from your intent early on.

Refine with micro-prompts

Most marketers underuse ChatGPT’s ability to revise its own work. Don’t settle for a “meh” paragraph. Tell it what to fix.

  • “Make this paragraph more concise.”

  • “Add a metaphor to explain this idea.”

  • “Rewrite in the tone of a Seth Godin blog post.”

You’re not starting over; you’re editing collaboratively. This is where the “conversation” really kicks in — and where nuance, style and depth start to emerge. You’ll often be surprised by how well ChatGPT responds to creative nudges.

Related: 5 Mistakes I Learned to Avoid When Working With ChatGPT

Use it for strategic thinking, too

Prompt conversations aren’t just for content execution. They’re great for upstream thinking — like naming campaigns, testing messaging or exploring buyer personas.

For example:

ChatGPT will do the heavy lifting, and you’ll spot ideas you hadn’t considered. You can even ask it to role-play as a skeptical customer or a competitor, helping you pressure-test your messaging before going to market.

Build your prompt stack

Once you find sequences that work (e.g., for writing case studies, newsletters or landing pages), save them. Create a prompt stack: your own playbook of step-by-step conversations that consistently produce results.

This saves time and improves quality across your team. Over time, you’ll develop reusable frameworks for different content types, which reduces friction when onboarding new team members or scaling campaigns.

Beware of blind spots

As powerful as prompt conversations are, they come with caveats. ChatGPT’s job is to be helpful — even when that means inventing information that sounds right but isn’t. It will confidently cite fake statistics, create imaginary quotes or attribute real quotes to the wrong people. It’s not trying to deceive you; it’s trying to please you.

Always double-check facts, names and sources. If ChatGPT gives you a quote, Google it. If it cites a study, look for the original. Treat the AI’s content as a first draft that requires human judgment and verification.

Another pitfall: the language itself. ChatGPT has certain go-to phrases that instantly signal “AI-generated.” You’ve seen them:

  • “In today’s fast-paced digital world…”

  • “Unlock the power of [insert feature here]…”

  • “Whether you’re a small business or a large enterprise…”

These lines feel stale and generic because they are. Savvy readers (and editors) can spot them a mile away. Train yourself to recognize this filler language — and ask ChatGPT to rewrite with more specificity and originality:

  • “Avoid clichés. Rewrite this intro with a punchy, unexpected opening.”

  • “Replace this generic phrase with something vivid or visual.”

You can even paste in your brand’s existing content and prompt: “Match this tone and avoid generic marketing language.”

Another tactic is to proactively set constraints. For instance, tell ChatGPT: “Avoid using startup clichés or overused buzzwords.” You can also ask it to analyze its own writing: “Which phrases in this paragraph might sound too generic or robotic?” It’s surprisingly self-aware when asked.

AI can get you 80% of the way, but that last 20% — the polish, the precision, the personality — comes from you.

Related: ChatGPT is Becoming More Human-Like. Here’s How The Tool is Getting Smarter at Replicating Your Voice, Brand and Personality.

The marketers getting the most out of ChatGPT aren’t those who know the cleverest single prompts. They’re the ones who treat it like a junior collaborator: giving it guidance, pushing it to iterate and building on its outputs.

Prompt conversations shift your mindset from “asking” to “shaping.” And that makes all the difference.

Start a smarter conversation. Your content will show it.

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How To Easily Determine The Right Amount Of Stock Exposure

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Only when the stock market goes down do people start to wonder whether they have too much exposure to stocks (equities). Questions arise: Should I cut back? Should I buy the dip? What’s the appropriate allocation to stocks right now?

While the answer depends on many variables—your risk tolerance, age, net worth, current asset allocation, and financial goals—figuring out the right amount of stock exposure doesn’t have to be complicated.

A Simple Stock Exposure Litmus Test

If you’re a working adult, here’s an easy way to determine whether your stock exposure is appropriate:

Calculate your paper losses during the latest market correction and divide that number by your current monthly income.

This gives you a rough estimate of how many months you’d have to work to make up for your stock market losses, assuming no rebound. It is part of my SEER formula that helps determine your true risk tolerance.

Stock Market Exposure Example:

Let’s say you have a $1 million portfolio, fully invested in the S&P 500. If the market corrects by 20%, you’ve lost $200,000. If you make $15,000 a month, you’d need to work 13.4 months to make up for the loss.

If the idea of working 13.4 extra months doesn’t faze you—maybe because you’re under 45, enjoy your job, or have plenty of other assets—then your stock exposure might be just right. You might even want to invest more.

But if the thought of working over a year just to recover your losses is depressing, your exposure to equities might be too high. Consider reducing it and reallocating to more stable investments like Treasury bonds or real estate.

A Real Case Study: Way Overexposed To Stocks

Here’s a real example I came across: A couple in their mid-50s with a $6.5 million net worth at the beginning of the year, consisting of $6 million in stocks and $500,000 in real estate. They spend no more than $100,000 a year.

In the first four months of 2025, they lost $1 million from their stock portfolio, which dropped to $5 million. With a maximum monthly spend of $8,333 (or ~$11,000 gross), they effectively lost 90 months of gross work income—that’s 7.5 years of working just to recover their losses.

For a couple in their mid-50s, losing that much time and money is unacceptable. They already have enough to live on comfortably. A 4% return on $6 million in Treasury bonds yields $240,000 a year risk-free. That’s twice their spending needs with virtually no risk.

This couple is either chasing returns out of habit, unaware of their true risk tolerance, or simply never received thoughtful financial guidance.

As I consult with more readers as part of my Millionaire Milestones book promotion, I realize everybody has a financial blindspot that needs optimizing.

Time Is the Best Measure of Stock Exposure

Why do we invest? Two main reasons:

  1. To make money to buy things and experiences.
  2. To buy time—so we don’t have to work forever at a job we dislike.

Between the two, time is far more valuable. Your goal shouldn’t be to die with the most money, but to maximize your freedom and time while you’re still healthy enough to enjoy it.

Sure, you could compare your losses to material things. For example, if you’re a car enthusiast and your $2 million portfolio drops by $400,000, that’s four $100,000 dream cars gone. But measuring losses in terms of time is a far more rational and powerful approach.

As you get older, this becomes even more true—because you simply have less time left.

Here’s a table that highlights a Risk Tolerance Multiple as measured in terms of working months. Your risk tolerance will vary. You can construct the rest of the portfolio with bonds, real estate, or other less volatile assets.

How to determine how much stock exposure to have based on your risk tolerance

My Personal Perspective on Time and Stock Exposure

Since I was 13, I’ve valued time more than most. A friend of mine tragically passed away at 15 in a car accident. That event deeply shaped how I approach life and finances.

I studied hard, landed a high-paying job in finance, and saved aggressively to reach financial independence at age 34. My goal was to retire by 40, but I left at 34 after negotiating a severance that covered five to six years of living expenses. I’ve acted congruently with how I value time – it is way more important than money.

Since retiring in 2012, I’ve kept my stock exposure to 25%–35% of my net worth. Why? Because I’m not willing to lose more than 18 months of income during the average market downturn, which tends to happen every three to five years. That’s my threshold. I never want to go back to full-time work for somebody else, especially now that I have young children.

They say once you’ve won the game, stop playing. Yet here I am still investing in risk assets, driven by inflation, some greed, and the desire to take care of my family.

Adjusting Stock Exposure by Time Willing to Work

In the earlier example, I advised the couple with $6 million in stocks to either reduce their exposure or increase their spending. Losing $1 million in a downturn equates to about 90 months of work income, based on their $11,000/month gross income.

If they’d be more comfortable losing the equivalent of just 30 months of income, they should limit their stock exposure to roughly $2 million. That way, in a 16.7% correction, they’d lose no more than $330,000.

Alternatively, they could justify their $6 million stock exposure by increasing their monthly income to $33,333, or about $400,000 a year. But more easily, boost their after-tax spending from $8,333 ($11,000 gross), to about $25,000 ($33,000 gross). That way, a $1 million loss represents just 30 months of work or spending.

Of course, it’s financially safer to boost income than to boost spending. But these are the levers you can pull—income, spending, and asset allocation—to align your portfolio with your willingness to lose time.

If you have a $6.5 million net worth and only spend $100,000 a year, you’re extremely conservative. The 4% rule suggests you could safely spend up to $260,000 a year, which still gives you plenty of buffer. Hence, this couple should live it up more or give more money away.

Time Is the Greatest Opportunity Cost

I hope this framework helps you rethink your stock exposure. It’s not about finding a perfect allocation. It’s about understanding your opportunity cost of time and aligning your investments with your goals.

Stocks will always feel like funny money to me until they’re sold and used for something meaningful. That’s when their value is finally realized.

If this recent downturn has you depressed because of the time you’ve lost, your exposure is likely too high. But if you’re unfazed and even excited to buy more, then your allocation might be just right—or even too low.

Readers, how do you determine your appropriate amount of stock exposure? How many months of work income are you willing to lose to make up for your potential losses?

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