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Having Kids Might Not Hurt Your Ideal FIRE Lifestyle After All

There are plenty of reasons people choose not to have kids, with the cost of raising them being a major one. Another big factor is the fear that children will disrupt an ideal FIRE lifestyle. Many envision a life of traveling the world, indulging in incredible cuisine, and living spontaneously—things that can feel more challenging with kids in tow.
I understand that perspective. I grew up living in six countries before college, studied abroad for six months, and spent 13 years working in international equities. Travel was a huge part of my life. My approach was to achieve financial independence as quickly as possible and then have kids.
As an older parent, I feel relatively secure, having had more time to save and invest. However, I do wish I had children earlier than 39 and 42, given how much energy it takes to raise them. Starting younger would have meant more years with them later in life.
To prepare for settling down, my wife and I spent 2012–2017 traveling to about 20 countries before having our first child. We wanted to get those travel experiences out of our system so we could fully embrace being stay-at-home parents during their early years. By the time our son arrived, we were over the constant urge to hop on planes or ships, so our plan worked.
This mindset helped us focus on raising our kids without feeling the fear of missing out—especially during the first two years of the pandemic.
Don’t Be Afraid of Having Kids If You Want to FIRE
Eight years into parenting, however, I’m realizing that delaying having kids is a bad idea if you truly want them. Kids won’t derail your FIRE lifestyle as much as you might think because they actually have more flexibility than you’d expect.
Plus, as you get older, your desire to travel and party as much naturally declines. Instead, you may find yourself enjoying the simple pleasures of reading a good personal finance book in bed or ordering takeout while watching your favorite show. Take for example my latest travels.
Just a couple of weeks after spending five nights skiing at Palisades, Lake Tahoe, we are back for another four-night stay. With my kids off from school for nine days between February 15-23, I figured we should make the most of it with another trip.
Being the frugal personal finance enthusiast that I am, we planned our visit strategically—driving up on Monday, February 17, and leaving Friday, February 21. This way, we could rent out our place the weekends before and after, maximizing rental income. For a 3.5-hour drive each way, we’ve found that four to five nights is the sweet spot. Plus, weekend rates are peak rates, and we prefer fewer crowds on the mountain anyway.
So Many School Vacation Holidays!
During the drive up, I couldn’t help but think: Dang, these kids are really lucky—so many vacations! It feels like they’re taking more trips than I ever did as a kid. It’s almost as if education has taken a backseat to maximizing freedom at an early age.
Once we arrived, I decided to check our school vacation calendar. Sure enough, there are 46 vacation/off days during the school year—not including the 2.5 months off for summer. When you factor in the weekends wrapped around those breaks, we’re looking at 4.5 months of free time a year!
All these days off feel like the beginning of the quiet quitting movement, but for school. Does anyone else feel like the number of school vacation days is reaching ever-higher levels?

Ideal Amount of Time to Spend Traveling Each Year
Before semi-retiring in 2012, I imagined that the ideal amount of time to travel when FIRE was about three months per year. I had already been taking six weeks off a year for the last two years of my work career. My plan was simple:
- One month in Hawaii to spend more time with my parents.
- One month in Lake Tahoe to get as much snowboarding in as possible.
- One month traveling internationally, ideally visiting at least two countries.
For several years, I stuck to this plan, sometimes extending my travels to 3.5 months a year. But eventually, I got tired of all it all. While I’m not at that point again, I’m reminded of how exhausting frequent travel can be as I was driving up to Lake Tahoe.
As much as I enjoy experiencing new places, I’ve come to appreciate the balance between adventure and staying put. While three months per year might have been the sweet spot before kids, I’m now reconsidering what the ideal amount really is.
Vacation for Kids Usually Means More Work for Parents
While vacations are fun for kids, they often require more effort from FIRE parents or those who choose to take time off instead of sending their kids to mini-camps or daycare. The more school breaks your child has, the more energy you’ll need to dedicate to parenting.
That said, this extra time together is a gift—especially if your kids are under 12. At this stage, all they want is to spend as much time with family as possible. One of the best perks of FIRE is having the flexibility to enjoy every school break with them.
However, if you’re a FIRE parent who has settled into a routine where traditional school acts as a default structure for your kids, you may feel more exhausted during extended vacations. We get used to our habits, and ironically, not having to homeschool has made us softer.
Beyond parenting, most FIRE parents I know have personal passions they love to pursue. For me, it’s writing on Financial Samurai and creating a new personal finance book every three years.
To be more present on vacation, I prepared ahead by writing and scheduling three posts in advance. But, inevitably, new post ideas—like this one—popped into my head, so I had to write and publish them. Plus, I enjoy engaging with reader comments and emails. So when I’m on vacation, it’s never a complete break.
Three Months of Travel a Year Is More Than Enough
Traveling solo or with your partner is completely different from traveling with young kids. If I were alone, I’d throw everything into a backpack and go. But with kids, our SUV gets packed to the brim—dietary-specific foods, clothes, stuffed animals, puzzles, games, and more. And if we’re flying, checked luggage is inevitable. Thankfully, we’re past the stroller and car seat stage.
Because traveling with kids requires more effort, my original three-month-per-year travel goal feels more than enough. In fact, eight weeks a year of travel is probably plenty with children. Even if the kids could travel 365 days a year, none of us would want to do so. Kids, in particular, enjoy the comfort of their own homes.
Looking ahead, March has another four-day school break, followed by two three-day weekends. Do we really want to return to Tahoe just two weeks later? Maybe. Consistently attending ski school is great for development. But maybe we’ll opt for Sonoma/Napa Valley instead—just 1.15 hours away to change things up.
Then in April, there’s a nine-day break for spring vacation. I love spring skiing when temperatures regularly hit the 40s. But if the snow is too thin, we’ll probably head to Honolulu to visit my parents—if they’ll have us.
When you have the freedom to take a trip during every school break, it can feel overwhelming. You’ve got to plan, pack, pay, coordinate, and travel. But staying home doing nothing can also feel like a waste since you are free. As a result, the natural tendency is to plan and go because you can.
The Real Fun Begins in Summer for FIRE Parents
With 46 school days off throughout the year (not counting weekends), you might feel exhausted by June, when school gets out. But then comes 2.5 months of summer break to plan!
Most parents rely on summer camps, which offer fantastic programs—if you can secure a spot. In San Francisco, competition is fierce, and I assume it’s the same in other big cities. If you don’t land a spot, it’s on the parents to fill the days.
Personally, I run “Daddy Camp” for my kids, which currently includes swimming, biking, hiking, Pokémon Go adventures, reading, and pickleball. I also have “Be Responsible Camp,” where I teach them life skills about adulthood. Subjects include manners, communication skills, household chores, landscaping, and rental property maintenance. It’s fun but also a lot of work.
This summer, we plan to spend at least a month in Honolulu. If we get the kids into a local summer camp, that’ll be a bonus—it’s like winning the lottery since out-of-towners are last in line. But if not, Daddy Camp and Be Responsible Camp will continue in Honolulu. But before booking the tickets, we need to lock down a 30-day-or-longer rental house. Anybody have one?
You Can Travel Enough and Enjoy Your Freedom While School Is in Session
At the end of the day, having kids doesn’t ruin your desired FIRE lifestyle—you still get to travel plenty, just with them. As they grow older, travel becomes even more rewarding. Instead of just reading about the pyramids in Egypt, they’ll see them in person. Instead of nibbling at expensive meals, they’ll actually eat enough to justify the cost. More importantly, you’ll create amazing memories together for up to 4.5 months a year.
When school is in session, you’ll regain ~40 hours per week to do whatever you want. That is when you might experience true early retirement life again since you don’t have to work. And when they leave for college, you’ll have 168 free hours per week if you wish. Hang in there! Yet, at the same time, cherish every moment with them.
Having kids will enhance your FIRE lifestyle because they will give you more purpose to explore. Yes, you’ll be more tired, spend more passive income, and have your patience tested endlessly. But kids will significantly increase the joy and purpose of financial independence. So don’t let your pursuit of FIRE stop you from having kids if you want them!
FIRE May No Longer Be Necessary
Finally, with so many flexible work arrangements available today, is early retirement even necessary anymore? Many of my friends at Meta and Google work from home on Fridays and Mondays, effectively turning every weekend into a four-day getaway. Whether it’s hitting the slopes or relaxing at the beach, they’re already enjoying a taste of the FIRE lifestyle—without having to retire.
Getting paid to vacation and travel with your kids feels like a double bonus. As someone who didn’t even receive paid parental leave, I’m not sure I could give up such a perk.
Logically, it makes sense to get paid to travel and vacation for as long as possible. If your employer starts tightening the reins, just ramp up your efforts until they ease up again.
If you’re a FIRE parent, I’d love to hear how having kids has influenced your FIRE lifestyle. Has it changed the way you originally planned to live? Do you find yourself constantly planning adventures whenever school is out, or have you learned to resist FOMO and enjoy a more relaxed, local lifestyle? How do you plan summer vacation with them?
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The Most Common Tax Planning Mistakes For High Earners

If my posts on the mistake of chasing value stocks or the need to invest big money to make life-changing money don’t resonate, consider hiring a financial professional to manage your portfolio. You may not be obsessed enough to consistently invest the amount needed to retire comfortably. Offloading the burden of investing frees up your time and energy to focus on work, family, and hobbies.
At this moment, I’m preparing to do my taxes again. Every year I file an extension (Oct 15 deadline) because of delayed K-1s from private fund investments. So when Empower reached out about highlighting tax planning mistakes for high earners, I agreed. It’s a topic I know all too well.
What I didn’t realize is that Empower offers tax planning as part of its standard client service. No extra invoices, no $300/hour CPA bills. Just integrated advice, included in the management fee. Considering that taxes are often the single largest expense for high-income earners, having proactive strategy baked in is a big deal.
The Importance Of Tax Planning For High Income Earners
When you’re a high earner—think $250,000+ income or the potential to get there—you’ve probably got a lot on your plate: investments, real estate, maybe a business or two. What you might not be paying enough attention to? Tax planning.
It’s not sexy like a moonshot AI stock, but the compounding effect of smart, consistent tax moves can rival investment returns over time. As Empower Personal Wealth specialist Scott Hipp, CPA, CFP® explains, for high-income, high-net-worth clients, tax planning isn’t about chasing one-off loopholes, it’s about proactive, coordinated, year-round strategy.
Let’s dive into four key questions Scott answered that reveal just how much value smart tax planning can deliver. If you’re searching for a financial professional to manage your wealth, choosing one that integrates tax planning into their service is essential, not an add-on.
Empower has been a long-time affiliate partner of Financial Samurai, and I personally consulted for Personal Capital (later acquired by Empower) from 2013 to 2015. I’ve seen firsthand how incorporating tax strategy into wealth management can meaningfully boost long-term returns.
1. Why is tax planning critical for high earners?
When you’re in the top federal tax brackets—32%, 35%, or 37%—every strategic move counts more. Saving 1% on taxes for someone making $100K is nice. Saving 1% for someone making $800,000? That’s four first-class tickets to Hawaii with a couple thousand left over.
Scott says most people think of tax planning as a once-a-year scramble or a hunt for magical loopholes (“I heard Uncle Bob pays zero taxes because he made his dogs employees…”). The truth: the biggest gains come from small, consistent, legal moves year after year.
It’s like The Shawshank Redemption: pressure and time. Maxing out a health savings account, backdoor Roth contributions, charitable “bunching,” and tax-loss harvesting may seem minor in isolation, but over 20 years, they can carve a serious tunnel toward financial freedom.
Here’s the danger: by the time you file in April, most opportunities are gone. If you’re filing 2025’s taxes in April 2026, your deadline for most strategies was December 31, 2025. That’s why Empower’s team works year-round—advisors and tax specialists meet regularly to tweak and optimize before the clock runs out.
2. What’s the deal with the SALT deduction changes?
The State and Local Tax (SALT) deduction cap got a temporary boost after the passage of The One Big Beautiful Bill Act on July 4, 2025. It’s $40,000 in 2025 (up from $10,000), rising slightly each year until 2029, before reverting in 2030.
Who benefits? Mostly taxpayers with AGI under $500K in high-tax states. Hit $600K AGI, and the expanded cap phases out completely.
But even high earners over $600K aren’t out of luck—if you own a pass-through business (S-corp, partnership, LLC taxed as such), you might use the Pass-Through Entity Tax (PTET) workaround. Here, the business pays state taxes, making them fully deductible federally, and you get a state tax credit. As of 2025, 35+ states have a PTET option.
For the right clients, SALT changes + PTET can unlock deductions worth tens of thousands—money that stays in your portfolio instead of the IRS’s coffers.
3. How does Empower approach complex high-earner situations?
Let’s say you’re a business owner with significant investment income, passive rental income, and real estate holdings.
With Empower, you basically have a “tax specialist on demand” baked into your fee – no surprise bills. The process starts with:
- Reviewing the past three years of returns for missed opportunities. (You’ve got three years to amend and claim a refund.) Empower can spot thousands in overlooked deductions.
- Holistic planning based on your goals. Tax strategy isn’t in a vacuum—it’s tied to your investment plan, estate goals, and cash flow needs.
Common missed opportunities for self-employed clients:
- Not deducting health insurance premiums.
- Missing the Qualified Business Income (QBI) deduction.
- Ignoring home office deductions.
More common errors Empower can help catch:
- Capital loss carryforwards lost when switching preparers/software
- Incorrect Backdoor Roth processing
- Missed Foreign Tax Credit
- Wrong cost basis for stock sales (ESPP, options)
- HSA distributions taxed in error
From there, Empower looks forward—maybe setting up a solo 401(k), timing income, or planning capital gains. The idea is to create an ongoing tax playbook, not just fix past mistakes.
4. What real-world tax savings have clients seen?
Missed health insurance deductions are surprisingly common—and costly.
- S-Corp owner: CPA added health insurance premiums to W-2 wages (correctly) but never told the client they could deduct those premiums above the line. Amending three years’ returns saved ~$6,000 in federal taxes.
- Sole proprietor: Deducted health insurance as a Schedule A itemized deduction, but couldn’t benefit due to medical expense thresholds and not itemizing at all. Amending saved ~$7,500.
- Medicare premiums: Many don’t know they qualify as self-employed health insurance deductions. Catching this can save $1,000+ per year.
These aren’t flashy hedge-fund-like wins—but they’re guaranteed returns via tax savings, often compounding over years.
Key Strategies Empower Uses for High Earners
Scott shared a few proactive moves that come up again and again:
Bunching Charitable Contributions
Standard deduction in 2025: $15,750 (single) / $31,500 (married). By combining two or more years of donations into one tax year, you can exceed the standard deduction, itemize that year, and take the standard deduction the next—resulting in a bigger total deduction over time.
Bonus: Donate appreciated assets or use a Donor-Advised Fund for even more efficiency.
Tax Loss Harvesting
Selling investments at a loss to offset gains elsewhere—then reinvesting in similar (but not “substantially identical”) assets—can lower your current-year tax bill while keeping your portfolio allocated. All Empower Personal Strategy clients ($100K+) minimize your tax burden with proactive application of tax-loss harvesting and tax location.
Roth Conversions
Moving funds from a traditional IRA to a Roth IRA lets you lock in today’s tax rate if you expect to be in a higher bracket later. Future withdrawals? Tax-free. This is especially powerful in lower-income years before RMDs kick in.
Saving Money On A Good CPA
A good CPA might charge $150–$400/hour just for tax consultations. Meanwhile, many don’t offer proactive planning at all, focusing instead on compliance and filing.
Empower builds tax planning into its overall wealth management service for clients with $100K+ in investable assets. That means:
- One fee, one integrated plan.
- Advisors and tax specialists in the same room (or Zoom) all year.
- Proactive calls before the deadlines—not “we’ll see you next April.”
The Bottom Line
Big investment wins get the headlines, but year after year, quiet, boring, proactive tax moves can be worth just as much, sometimes more. For high earners, ignoring tax planning is like leaving compounding on the table.
If you’ve got $100K+ in investable assets, Empower is offering Financial Samurai readers a free consultation. Even if you’re confident in your current plan, a second opinion could uncover thousands in missed opportunities.
For a limited time only, book your free, no obligation session here. An Empower professional will review your investments and net worth, and offer some suggestions on where you can optimize, all for free.
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How To Eliminate That Intense Financial FOMO You’re Feeling

Back in 2012, I thought I had finally conquered financial FOMO after walking away from a well-paying finance job. But after having children, I’ve noticed more and more relapses. If you’ve found yourself battling the desire for more money than you truly need, this post is for you.
Ever since returning to San Francisco from our 36-day trip to Honolulu, I’ve been feeling a greater sense of FOMO. The first week back hit especially hard when Figma IPOed and surged 333% on its first day. Suddenly, we were right back to frenzied markets, with retail investors piling in at sky-high prices.
In Honolulu, my focus was on mainly three things: 1) family, 2) exercise, and 3) remodeling my parents’ in-law unit. Those three priorities consumed all my bandwidth. Between supercommuting and construction, I was spent most days, with little time left to think about chasing investments.
Pickleball and then the beach were my escape. While waiting for the next game, conversations revolved around recapping rallies, kids, or which store sold the best Pirie mangoes. Careers and investments never came up, except when I asked a couple players about Honolulu’s cost of living. The vibe was refreshingly present, grounded, and calm.
The Return Back Was Somewhat Jolting
I had never taken my family on such a long trip before, so the contrast with life back home was especially clear.
With just the four of us at home, family logistics became simpler, familiar camps smoothed out childcare every other week, and the remodeling burden was finally lifted. With all that mental headspace freed up, my mind inevitably drifted back to the markets and to the unsettling realization that the AI boom was racing ahead without me.
On the pickleball courts here, the chatter couldn’t have been more different. Nearly everyone was talking about tech stocks, the bull market, and the next big AI play. Why? Because nearly everyone either works in tech or invests heavily in it. There was no escaping the mania. I found myself longing for the calmer rhythm of Honolulu again.
The Moment That Reduced My FOMO Tremendously
Then something unexpected happened that broke my financial FOMO fever. The first weekend back home, I went to a neighborhood gathering at a local park. Familiar faces were everywhere, including one dad I occasionally hang out with. He works in venture, so I asked whether he ever felt the same financial FOMO I’d been struggling with since returning.
He shrugged. “Kinda, but not really.” Why would he? He spends his days looking for the next big winner, so opportunities are always flowing across his desk. Though he did mention once passing on a company that went on to be a huge success.
That surprised me. If anyone should feel FOMO, it’s investors who had the chance and said no, far worse than never getting a look at all, which is the reality for most of us. If I never had the opportunity, then there was no missing out in the first place. But it also made sense he didn’t feel much financial FOMO since he was already immersed in the hunt for more.
We kept chatting. He asked how my summer had been, so I shared some stories from our time away. Naturally, I asked about his summer too, expecting to hear about some big trip since his family had traveled a lot before. But instead, he told me they hadn’t gone anywhere. He’d been too busy working. Two months into summer, and he was still grinding away.
That was my “ah hah” moment. Suddenly, my financial FOMO evaporated. Here was someone, at least twice as wealthy as me, stuck at home because of work. It reminded me of my banking days, when I had to ask for permission to take vacation—like a kid asking his parents for pocket money. What a crock!
I’m sure his hard work this summer will make him millions more. But he’s already rich. At our age, I don’t want to sacrifice too much time with my kids for incremental wealth that won’t materially change our lifestyle. 18 summers isn’t a lot. I’ve got enough passive income to cover our family’s basic needs. That freedom, I was reminded, is worth more than chasing the next big score.
The Six Steps To Reducing Your Intense FOMO
Financial FOMO comes from comparison, insecurity about our own progress, and the fear of missing a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. It tends to peak during bull markets, when it feels like everyone else is getting rich except you.
I’m not sure anybody is truly immune to financial FOMO. You can be wealthy, financially independent, retired, or even work in venture capital, and still feel it. But FOMO left unchecked can push you into bad investment decisions, such as buying at peaks, overextending on margin, or constantly second-guessing yourself.
Here are six tactical yet practical steps that may help you manage FOMO better:
1) Build a Core Portfolio You Rarely Touch
One of the best ways to combat FOMO is to remind yourself that you already own a piece of the future. If you’re invested in equities, real estate, Bitcoin, or venture, you’re covered. Even holding something as simple as the S&P 500 means you’re participating in the ongoing growth of our economy. The exact mix of your asset allocation is up to you. What matters most is having a stake in assets that can carry you forward, so you don’t feel pressured to chase every hot new opportunity.
I keep the bulk of my public equity investments in broad index funds. Meanwhile, about 40% of my net worth in real estate, and 15% in private companies.With a solid core, it becomes much easier to tune out the noise and ignore the hype cycles.
For example, if AI truly sparks a wave of IPOs, new startups, and thousands of newly minted millionaires, at least my San Francisco real estate should benefit. I recently experienced a rental bidding war for one of my properties and that’s before the AI IPO wave has even arrived. Investing in the picks and shovels helps ensure you will financially benefit, no matter what.
2) Allocate a “FOMO Fund”
Instead of trying to suppress the urge to participate, give yourself permission, but with guardrails. Roughly 40% of my public equities are in individual growth names, mostly tech. This way, when I see headlines about breakthroughs, like quantum computing, I feel like I’m part of the story rather than left on the sidelines. Of course, during the next correction, I will also lose more than the average index fund investor too.
I’ve also carved out a dedicated “FOMO Fund”—about 5% of my overall portfolio—for speculative money. That’s where I can dabble in individual private companies, new venture funds, or even short-term trends. If it pays off, great. If not, it won’t derail my financial plan. By containing the risk, you scratch the itch while protecting your long-term wealth.
3) Systematize Your Investing With Automation
One reason FOMO hits so hard is because investing often feels optional and emotional. A simple antidote: automation. Dollar-cost averaging into index funds, ETFs, individual stocks, or funds removes the decision-making stress. When money flows into the market on a schedule, you don’t sit around debating whether to chase the next hot stock. Instead, you’re already steadily invested, no matter what the headlines say.
For example, after opening a new personal Innovation Fund account earmarked for my kids with $26,000 ($500 bonus if you invest over $25,000), I enrolled in auto-invest at $2,500 a month. It’s enough out of my cash flow to feel involved without feeling strain. One year later, that’s $30,000 invested; after 10 years, $300,000.
Without automation, it’s easy to fall off track because life gets busy. I have over 30 investment accounts to manage between the four of us. Inevitably, I’m going to miss something, which is why automation is so important to free up mental bandwidth.
I’m concerned my kids may have little chance of becoming financially independent on their own in an AI-driven, hyper-competitive world. Therefore, every dollar I automate for them helps reduce that concern, while ensuring their money is working even if I get distracted.

4) Use Opportunity Cost as a Filter
Before jumping on the next hot idea, I try to ask: What am I giving up if I do this? Am I sacrificing cash flow, peace of mind, or time with family? Am I risking capital I’ll need in five years for housing, education, or flexibility? During bear markets, I certainly get a little more moody. By forcing yourself to weigh trade-offs, you realize some FOMO-driven decisions don’t actually pass the test. I
As someone who enjoys investing more than spending, this opportunity cost exercise often flips for me. I tend to think instead: What is the opportunity cost of spending money on something I don’t really need versus the potential returns if I invested it? Buying this unnecessary $120,000 Range Rover could turn into $300,000 in five years if invested well!
Still, the reality is that not all investments work out, especially the most speculative ones. Corrections and bear markets are a natural part of investing. Which is why it’s worth asking a different version of the question too: What are the joys I’m giving up today in exchange for an investment that may never pan out? That balance helps keep you grounded, whether you lean toward spending or investing.
Losing Money Quickly
Just look at the Figma IPO. I suspect FOMO drove many investors to pile in on day one, paying $100–$133 a share. Fast forward just a few weeks, and the stock is already down about 40% from its peak. I would much rather have spent $25,000 on a memorable family vacation than invested it in Figma and watched $10,000 vanish in two weeks. YOLO!
Chasing hot IPOs at extraordinary valuations is dangerous, so please be careful. Instead, consider investing in these companies before they go IPO so you can sell to investors who experience maximum FOMO.
Always remind yourself that you can and will lose money when it comes to investing in risk assets. Sometimes, this fact is easy to forget during a bull market.

5) Define “Enough” Clearly
FOMO often creeps in when you don’t have a clear baseline for what success actually means to you. If your target is always a vague “more,” then no matter how much progress you make, someone else will always appear to be ahead – whether it’s their bigger house, higher net worth, or latest hot investment. That mindset makes contentment impossible.
What helps is defining enough. For me, that’s when passive income reliably covers our family’s basic living expenses. Once that box is checked, every dollar beyond is truly optional. I can put it toward growth investments, donate it, or try to spend it guilt-free on experiences.
After I hit a passive income target, I try and shift my mindset back toward an early retirement lifestyle. This means less striving, more enjoying. Anchoring to “enough” quiets the noise, and reminds me that I’ve already got enough.
Once you know your number and can sustain your lifestyle, you realize chasing endlessly isn’t freedom, it’s another form of bondage.
6) Change Your Environment
Finally, FOMO isn’t just about the markets, it’s about the people around you. Living in go-getter cities like San Francisco or New York means you’re constantly surrounded by the most ambitious and competitive people. Many of whom are making big money in tech, finance, or startups. The conversations, the headlines, even the birthday gatherings, it all feeds into a sense that you’re in this constant battle where you’re often falling behind.
One way to dial that back is to physically change your environment. Moving to, or even spending extended time in, a slower-paced city or town gives you space to breathe. Suddenly, not everyone is talking about the latest IPO or AI fundraise. Conversations shift to family, community, or quality of life.
It doesn’t mean giving up ambition or opportunity, you can still build wealth anywhere. But by lowering the ambient noise of competition, you reduce the constant comparison game that fuels financial FOMO.
Final Thoughts On Getting Rid Of FOMO
Markets will always swing from euphoria to despair, and there will always be someone making more money than you. But with a sound core portfolio, a small space to take punts, and a clear definition of enough, you can stay disciplined while still scratching the investing itch.
FOMO doesn’t disappear, but with the right systems, it can be managed so it doesn’t manage you.
Readers, do you experience financial FOMO? If not, how do you manage it so you don’t feel like you’re constantly missing out on financial gains? Interestingly, the vast majority of people I speak with in real life say they don’t really struggle with financial FOMO. That makes me curious — what strategies do you use to tame this beast?
Invest in AI So You Don’t Get Left Behind
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I recently opened a new account for my children with $26,000 and will auto-invest $2,500 a month for the foreseeable future. My hope is that by riding the AI wave, they’ll benefit from the very disruption that might otherwise work against them.
Fundrise is a long-time sponsor of Financial Samurai, and Financial Samurai is an investor in Fundrise products. Our investment philosophies are aligned. Overall, I’ve invested more than $350,000 in Fundrise Venture.

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