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Buying The Dip: Overcome Fear During A Correction And Prosper

During the recent stock market correction, I decided to buy the dip. But this time, I didn’t just buy my usual dip-buying amount of $25,000 to $100,000. I went much bigger. All told, I spent over $1 million buying the S&P 500 and various tech stocks like Meta, Microsoft, and Amazon.
Spending over $1 million buying stocks was the most I had ever invested in a 50-day period. The last time I came close to this level of stock market investment was in late 2017 when I invested about $600,000 in stocks. Back then, I had just sold my largest rental property in San Francisco and walked away with about $1,780,000 after taxes and fees.
This time, the stock market had already started dipping when I experienced another liquidity event, forcing a tough decision on how to reinvest the proceeds. The process was harrowing and stressful, especially since the original investment had been stable for so many years.
However, to outperform the masses, you must take risks. I want to share the psychological journey of investing a large sum during uncertain times—and how you can overcome your own fear of buying the dip. Let me show you how.

Why Buying The Dip Is So Hard
I’m actually not afraid of buying the dip. I’ve been doing so since 1997, when I saw my puny stock portfolio decline during the Asian Financial Crisis.
What I fear, though, is buying the dip with a lot more money than I’m used to investing. If I have a lot more money to invest, it usually means I’m already losing a lot of money in my existing stock portfolio.
Although stocks have historically provided an average annual return of around 10%, there are plenty of times when they correct by 20% or more. Just in March 2020, the S&P 500 corrected by 32%.
The worst stock market correction in our lifetime was the 2008-2009 Global Financial Crisis, where the S&P 500 corrected by about 50%. That event was so severe it made me question whether I wanted to stay in finance for the rest of my life.
Given the volatility of stocks, I’ve always tried to dollar-cost average more aggressively during downturns. DCAing is fundamental to dip buying. But when you’re already losing a boatload of money from your existing stock portfolio, it can be terrifying to invest even more of your safe cash.

How To Overcome Your Fear Of Buying The Stock Market Dip
If you’re afraid of buying the dip, you’re not alone. Here are the steps I took to overcome that fear—they might help you too. For context, I’ve been buying market dips with work income ever since I landed my first job on Wall Street in 1999. Over the years, there have been plenty of corrections, and each one has felt terrible in the moment.
It’s also important to recognize the difference between buying the dip with regular income or cash flow and buying the dip after a major liquidity event—like when a private real estate investment pays out. Reinvesting a large lump sum can be much harder, especially when the original capital performed well. The psychological pressure not to “mess it up” can be intense.
But if you want to build outsized wealth, you must take more calculated risks. Otherwise, you’ll end up like everybody else, or worse. Let’s get started.
1) Give Some of Your Money To Your Family First
Spread luck when it comes your way. The more people around you who benefit, the better. And if you ever find yourself down on your luck, maybe those you’ve helped will return the favor.
After a liquidity event, I transferred $50,000 to my wife’s checking account and $25,000 each to my two kids’ custodial investment accounts, Roth IRAs, and 529 plans. While it’s all part of the same family pot, I took comfort in knowing that if I made poor investment decisions with the remaining funds, at least I spread $100,000 of the winnings to the three people I care about the most.
My wife, who’s more risk-averse, invested in a mix of stocks and Treasury bonds. For my kids, I kept things simple with vanilla S&P 500 ETFs and target-date funds.
By redistributing money to my loved ones first, I felt a deeper sense of security and purpose. It was similar to the idea of paying yourself first—saving and investing a portion of your income before spending—but viewed through the lens of long-term family planning.
Although my own portfolios were getting hammered by the correction, the least I could do was protect my children’s. So I bought the dip in both their custodial accounts. This is a man’s Provider’s Clock in action. Their portfolios were small enough that every correction could be countered with cash infusions. Psychologically, this gave me the courage to keep investing.

2) Do Something Responsible With the Money Before Investing
In addition redistributing your money to your family, consider using some of it for responsible financial moves before diving into the market.
- Pay down debt: Start with high-interest debt, then work your way down.
- Fix what’s broken: Use the money for essential repairs—whether it’s a leaking roof, a failing water heater, or a necessary car repair.
- Invest in your health: Consider spending on things that improve your well-being, like exercise classes, ergonomic work setups, or better nutrition.
For me, I allocated some of my money toward fixing my hot tub. Then I spent $1,025 replacing my car’s heater manifold, which cracked. Knowing I had put my money to good use in other ways made it easier to stomach potential investment losses.

3) Write Out Your Investment Game Plan and Follow It
When investing a significant amount of money, it’s crucial to establish an investment game plan. This plan acts as a guiding framework to help you stay disciplined when the stock market is falling apart.
Your plan should outline your target asset allocation, investment time horizon, and a set range for each dip purchase. Additionally, assess whether the market is experiencing a correction (-5% to -19.9%) or if it’s likely to enter a bear market with a decline of 20% or more.
If you believe it’s just a correction, you can be more aggressive with your dip buying. However, if you anticipate a bear market, be more patient and spread out your purchases to avoid depleting your cash reserves too quickly. Having cash is vital for maintaining enough confidence to invest in a downturn.
After securing my loved ones and handling necessary expenses, I outlined my investment plan. Not only did I write it down, but I also published it in my post, A Simple Three-Step Process To Investing A Lot Of Money Wisely. The three hours I spent writing and editing the article forced me to think deeply for my situation and for readers who face a similar situation.
Once I had my strategy in place, I methodically deployed capital, buying the dip every day the market declined. When I hit my initial allocation limit for the day or week, I reassessed.
You don’t need to follow your investment game plan perfectly, but having one will help you stay on track. One of the most common mistakes I see is when people lose discipline and buy too much stock too early. You must always have enough cash to take advantage of deeper corrections.
Moved to My Next Investment: Real Estate
After finishing my seven-figure investment in various stocks, I shifted my focus to residential commercial real estate.
I saw the biggest valuation discrepancy between the S&P 500 and commercial real estate, so I started dollar-cost averaging into Fundrise, which is possible due to its$10 minimum. I believe the current oversupply in residential commercial real estate will be absorbed by the end of 2025, leading to upward pressure on rents and property prices in 2026 and beyond.
Despite my preference for value investing, I didn’t allocate as much capital to real estate as I did to stocks. Real estate moves at a much slower pace than stocks—anywhere from 3x to 8x slower in my estimate. While stock prices can correct and recover within weeks, real estate cycles often take years.
This difference in timing influenced my investment strategy: I felt a greater sense of urgency with stocks, which could rebound quickly. Whereas I could afford to be more patient with real estate. In other words, the stock market correction created more investing FOMO and I didn’t want to miss out.

4) Adopt the “Go Broke” Mentality To Conquer Your Fear
One of the biggest mental hurdles in buying the dip is the fear that the market will keep dipping. Many people wait for confirmation that the worst is over—but by then, much of the rebound may have already happened.
That’s why I embrace a different mindset: I kiss my money goodbye the moment I invest it.
Instead of viewing the money as mine, I see it as my contribution to the financial future of my wife and kids. The money is now in the hands of the stock market or real estate market gods to do their thing. Will they punish me or reward me? I hope the latter as my goal is to take care of my family.
Of course, losses still sting. But by shifting my perspective, I reduce the emotional weight of each downturn. The less personal the money feels, the easier it is to invest.
And let’s be real: it’s much easier to invest $10,000 than $1 million. With larger sums, one wrong move can set you back years. Having the right stock exposure is key. That’s why every dip you buy can actually help you feel more at ease — you have less money left over to put to work, reducing the pressure of future decisions.
After all, when you’re broke, there’s only upside!
Remember, scared money doesn’t make money. This saying comes from my time playing poker. Whenever I feel hesitant about going all-in, I calculate the odds, and if they’re in my favor, I press.

5) Extend Your Investment Time Horizon To At Least 10 Years
I don’t know anybody in the history of dip buying who has hung on and lost money. Well, except for those who got margin called. If you can extend your investment time horizon to at least 10 years, you likely have a 95%+ chance of making money. Stretch it to 20 years, and your odds rise to 99.9% based on historical returns.
If you have young children, they can be the easiest motivation to buy the dip. Imagine your kids in their 20s or 30s, talking stocks, real estate, and other investments. If you could travel to that future moment, you’d probably bet everything you have today to secure their financial future.
Before I had kids, I was less aggressive buying the dips. I already had enough money to be satisfied, which is why I left work in the first place.
But now, it’s much easier because my kids’ investment accounts are smaller, and every dip is a buying opportunity for them. Besides, if I want to help them become financially independent by 25, they/we need to be more aggressive. The robots are coming!

6) Expect to Lose — It’s the Price of Investing
Finally, the worst thing you can do when buying the dip is assume you can’t lose. Anyone who has ever invested in the stock market or taken outsized risks has lost money before—and you will too. Losses are inevitable.
Even if you’re holding pocket Aces pre-flop in a heads-up game of Texas No-Limit Hold’em, you’ll still lose about 15% of the time. The same goes for investing. That’s why it’s crucial to calculate your potential downside before deploying capital during a dip.
For example, if you invest $100,000 after a 10% correction, understand that corrections can sometimes turn into bear markets. A further 25% drop from your entry point would mean a total 35% drawdown—translating into a $25,000 paper loss.
If you prepare for this possibility ahead of time, the pain may sting less if it actually happens. Plus, you’ll be in a better position emotionally and financially to invest more at even lower prices.
Timing The Market Is Tough, Stay Humble
Still think you can time the market? Just look at Mike Wilson, Chief Investment Officer of Morgan Stanley. He was bearish throughout 2023 and 2024, and the S&P 500 posted back-to-back gains of 20%+.
On April 7, 2025, after the S&P 500 had already corrected to 5,000, he predicted another 7%–8% drop to 4,700. Doom was on the horizon! Then, barely a month later on May 12, he appeared on CNBC with bullish conviction, claiming his 6,500 target would be fulfilled. Incredible. Being a Wall Street strategist or economist must be the best job—you can be wrong repeatedly and still get paid handsomely.
But this just goes to show how difficult it is to time the markets correctly. Just when you think you can’t lose, you might lose a boatload. And just when it feels like the sky is darkest, the soft glow of the sun begins to rise. Stay humble.
I fully expect to experience losses from my new investments again. Case in point: I bought ~$50,000 of Nike (NKE) stock between $68–$73 per share earlier in 2025, thinking it was a compelling turnaround story. The stock was at a five-year low, a new CEO was in place, and valuations seemed reasonable. Wrong! Nike cratered to $53 just two months later—a ~30% drop—partly due to the imposition of new tariffs.
Don’t Run Out of Cash – Cardinal Rule Of Dip-Buying
One of the toughest parts of buying the dip is running out of cash. It’s a form of psychological warfare because you need to accept that your existing investments are losing value while also watching your liquidity shrink with each stock purchase.
When you finally run out of cash, it’s like running out of ammunition while being surrounded by zombies. You’re vulnerable, exposed, and unable to defend yourself financially. Living paycheck-to-paycheck will snuff out your courage to invest.
That’s why it’s essential to stay disciplined in how much you buy with each dip. Your emotions may run rampant.
You Will Feel Stressed, Show Yourself Grace
The entire process of buying the dip for six weeks was stressful, especially since part of the time I was up in Lake Tahoe trying to get some ski runs in with my family on vacation. But I stuck to my investment game plan and cadence, trusting that my approach would pay off in the long run.
If you’re the partner who doesn’t manage the household finances, take a moment to acknowledge the effort of the partner who does. Managing your family’s finances can often feel like a full-time job, especially during market downturns when the pressure to make the right decisions intensifies. A little appreciation can go a long way in supporting the person carrying that weight.
There were plenty of moments when my mood soured as the stock market kept dropping with each new aggressive government policy initiative. However, I did my best to shield my family from the stress I was feeling.
When buying the dip and the market keeps dipping, it’s crucial to remind yourself that you’re trying your best. Nobody can time the market perfectly, but taking action and making thoughtful decisions already puts you ahead of those who sit on the sidelines.
Another Market Correction Is Inevitable
Whether it’s a 10% pullback or a 50% crash, nobody can predict it with certainty. However, given the strong historical track record of buying the dip, it’s a good idea to always have some idle cash ready to deploy the next time it happens.
So the next time a market decline shakes your confidence, remember:
- Secure your loved ones first.
- Make responsible financial moves before investing.
- Write out your investment plan and stick to it.
- Embrace the “go broke” mentality where every dollar you invest is no longer yours.
- Extend your investment horizon.
- Accept that you will lose money, at least, temporarily as you won’t be able to time the bottom.
And most importantly—don’t run out of cash. It is your liquid courage!
Because when the dip comes, you want to be ready to take advantage, while non-personal finance run for the hills. The only way to build outsized wealth is to take more calculated risks. Best of luck with your investment decisions!
Reader Questions and Suggestions
Do you regularly buy the dip? If so, how do you decide how much to invest during a downturn? How do you handle the fear of putting significantly more money to work while watching your existing portfolio decline?
Minimize Investment Volatility With Real Estate
Stock market volatility is a price you pay as an equities investor. If you want to dampen the volatility, diversify into real estate. Real estate is a more stable asset class that generates income and provides utility.
Check out Fundrise, my favorite private real estate investment platform open to all investors. With an investment minimum of only $10, it’s easy to diversify into real estate and earn more passive income.
The real estate platform invests primarily in residential and industrial properties in the Sunbelt, where valuations are cheaper and yields are higher. The spreading out of America is a long-term demographic trend. For most people, investing in a diversified fund is the way to go.

I’ve invested ~$1,000,000 in private real estate so far, with over $300,000 in Fundrise, a long-time sponsor. My goal is to diversify my expensive SF real estate holdings and earn more 100% passive income. I plan to continue dollar-cost investing into private real estate for the next decade.
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The Most Common Tax Planning Mistakes For High Earners

If my posts on the mistake of chasing value stocks or the need to invest big money to make life-changing money don’t resonate, consider hiring a financial professional to manage your portfolio. You may not be obsessed enough to consistently invest the amount needed to retire comfortably. Offloading the burden of investing frees up your time and energy to focus on work, family, and hobbies.
At this moment, I’m preparing to do my taxes again. Every year I file an extension (Oct 15 deadline) because of delayed K-1s from private fund investments. So when Empower reached out about highlighting tax planning mistakes for high earners, I agreed. It’s a topic I know all too well.
What I didn’t realize is that Empower offers tax planning as part of its standard client service. No extra invoices, no $300/hour CPA bills. Just integrated advice, included in the management fee. Considering that taxes are often the single largest expense for high-income earners, having proactive strategy baked in is a big deal.
The Importance Of Tax Planning For High Income Earners
When you’re a high earner—think $250,000+ income or the potential to get there—you’ve probably got a lot on your plate: investments, real estate, maybe a business or two. What you might not be paying enough attention to? Tax planning.
It’s not sexy like a moonshot AI stock, but the compounding effect of smart, consistent tax moves can rival investment returns over time. As Empower Personal Wealth specialist Scott Hipp, CPA, CFP® explains, for high-income, high-net-worth clients, tax planning isn’t about chasing one-off loopholes, it’s about proactive, coordinated, year-round strategy.
Let’s dive into four key questions Scott answered that reveal just how much value smart tax planning can deliver. If you’re searching for a financial professional to manage your wealth, choosing one that integrates tax planning into their service is essential, not an add-on.
Empower has been a long-time affiliate partner of Financial Samurai, and I personally consulted for Personal Capital (later acquired by Empower) from 2013 to 2015. I’ve seen firsthand how incorporating tax strategy into wealth management can meaningfully boost long-term returns.
1. Why is tax planning critical for high earners?
When you’re in the top federal tax brackets—32%, 35%, or 37%—every strategic move counts more. Saving 1% on taxes for someone making $100K is nice. Saving 1% for someone making $800,000? That’s four first-class tickets to Hawaii with a couple thousand left over.
Scott says most people think of tax planning as a once-a-year scramble or a hunt for magical loopholes (“I heard Uncle Bob pays zero taxes because he made his dogs employees…”). The truth: the biggest gains come from small, consistent, legal moves year after year.
It’s like The Shawshank Redemption: pressure and time. Maxing out a health savings account, backdoor Roth contributions, charitable “bunching,” and tax-loss harvesting may seem minor in isolation, but over 20 years, they can carve a serious tunnel toward financial freedom.
Here’s the danger: by the time you file in April, most opportunities are gone. If you’re filing 2025’s taxes in April 2026, your deadline for most strategies was December 31, 2025. That’s why Empower’s team works year-round—advisors and tax specialists meet regularly to tweak and optimize before the clock runs out.
2. What’s the deal with the SALT deduction changes?
The State and Local Tax (SALT) deduction cap got a temporary boost after the passage of The One Big Beautiful Bill Act on July 4, 2025. It’s $40,000 in 2025 (up from $10,000), rising slightly each year until 2029, before reverting in 2030.
Who benefits? Mostly taxpayers with AGI under $500K in high-tax states. Hit $600K AGI, and the expanded cap phases out completely.
But even high earners over $600K aren’t out of luck—if you own a pass-through business (S-corp, partnership, LLC taxed as such), you might use the Pass-Through Entity Tax (PTET) workaround. Here, the business pays state taxes, making them fully deductible federally, and you get a state tax credit. As of 2025, 35+ states have a PTET option.
For the right clients, SALT changes + PTET can unlock deductions worth tens of thousands—money that stays in your portfolio instead of the IRS’s coffers.
3. How does Empower approach complex high-earner situations?
Let’s say you’re a business owner with significant investment income, passive rental income, and real estate holdings.
With Empower, you basically have a “tax specialist on demand” baked into your fee – no surprise bills. The process starts with:
- Reviewing the past three years of returns for missed opportunities. (You’ve got three years to amend and claim a refund.) Empower can spot thousands in overlooked deductions.
- Holistic planning based on your goals. Tax strategy isn’t in a vacuum—it’s tied to your investment plan, estate goals, and cash flow needs.
Common missed opportunities for self-employed clients:
- Not deducting health insurance premiums.
- Missing the Qualified Business Income (QBI) deduction.
- Ignoring home office deductions.
More common errors Empower can help catch:
- Capital loss carryforwards lost when switching preparers/software
- Incorrect Backdoor Roth processing
- Missed Foreign Tax Credit
- Wrong cost basis for stock sales (ESPP, options)
- HSA distributions taxed in error
From there, Empower looks forward—maybe setting up a solo 401(k), timing income, or planning capital gains. The idea is to create an ongoing tax playbook, not just fix past mistakes.
4. What real-world tax savings have clients seen?
Missed health insurance deductions are surprisingly common—and costly.
- S-Corp owner: CPA added health insurance premiums to W-2 wages (correctly) but never told the client they could deduct those premiums above the line. Amending three years’ returns saved ~$6,000 in federal taxes.
- Sole proprietor: Deducted health insurance as a Schedule A itemized deduction, but couldn’t benefit due to medical expense thresholds and not itemizing at all. Amending saved ~$7,500.
- Medicare premiums: Many don’t know they qualify as self-employed health insurance deductions. Catching this can save $1,000+ per year.
These aren’t flashy hedge-fund-like wins—but they’re guaranteed returns via tax savings, often compounding over years.
Key Strategies Empower Uses for High Earners
Scott shared a few proactive moves that come up again and again:
Bunching Charitable Contributions
Standard deduction in 2025: $15,750 (single) / $31,500 (married). By combining two or more years of donations into one tax year, you can exceed the standard deduction, itemize that year, and take the standard deduction the next—resulting in a bigger total deduction over time.
Bonus: Donate appreciated assets or use a Donor-Advised Fund for even more efficiency.
Tax Loss Harvesting
Selling investments at a loss to offset gains elsewhere—then reinvesting in similar (but not “substantially identical”) assets—can lower your current-year tax bill while keeping your portfolio allocated. All Empower Personal Strategy clients ($100K+) minimize your tax burden with proactive application of tax-loss harvesting and tax location.
Roth Conversions
Moving funds from a traditional IRA to a Roth IRA lets you lock in today’s tax rate if you expect to be in a higher bracket later. Future withdrawals? Tax-free. This is especially powerful in lower-income years before RMDs kick in.
Saving Money On A Good CPA
A good CPA might charge $150–$400/hour just for tax consultations. Meanwhile, many don’t offer proactive planning at all, focusing instead on compliance and filing.
Empower builds tax planning into its overall wealth management service for clients with $100K+ in investable assets. That means:
- One fee, one integrated plan.
- Advisors and tax specialists in the same room (or Zoom) all year.
- Proactive calls before the deadlines—not “we’ll see you next April.”
The Bottom Line
Big investment wins get the headlines, but year after year, quiet, boring, proactive tax moves can be worth just as much, sometimes more. For high earners, ignoring tax planning is like leaving compounding on the table.
If you’ve got $100K+ in investable assets, Empower is offering Financial Samurai readers a free consultation. Even if you’re confident in your current plan, a second opinion could uncover thousands in missed opportunities.
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How To Eliminate That Intense Financial FOMO You’re Feeling

Back in 2012, I thought I had finally conquered financial FOMO after walking away from a well-paying finance job. But after having children, I’ve noticed more and more relapses. If you’ve found yourself battling the desire for more money than you truly need, this post is for you.
Ever since returning to San Francisco from our 36-day trip to Honolulu, I’ve been feeling a greater sense of FOMO. The first week back hit especially hard when Figma IPOed and surged 333% on its first day. Suddenly, we were right back to frenzied markets, with retail investors piling in at sky-high prices.
In Honolulu, my focus was on mainly three things: 1) family, 2) exercise, and 3) remodeling my parents’ in-law unit. Those three priorities consumed all my bandwidth. Between supercommuting and construction, I was spent most days, with little time left to think about chasing investments.
Pickleball and then the beach were my escape. While waiting for the next game, conversations revolved around recapping rallies, kids, or which store sold the best Pirie mangoes. Careers and investments never came up, except when I asked a couple players about Honolulu’s cost of living. The vibe was refreshingly present, grounded, and calm.
The Return Back Was Somewhat Jolting
I had never taken my family on such a long trip before, so the contrast with life back home was especially clear.
With just the four of us at home, family logistics became simpler, familiar camps smoothed out childcare every other week, and the remodeling burden was finally lifted. With all that mental headspace freed up, my mind inevitably drifted back to the markets and to the unsettling realization that the AI boom was racing ahead without me.
On the pickleball courts here, the chatter couldn’t have been more different. Nearly everyone was talking about tech stocks, the bull market, and the next big AI play. Why? Because nearly everyone either works in tech or invests heavily in it. There was no escaping the mania. I found myself longing for the calmer rhythm of Honolulu again.
The Moment That Reduced My FOMO Tremendously
Then something unexpected happened that broke my financial FOMO fever. The first weekend back home, I went to a neighborhood gathering at a local park. Familiar faces were everywhere, including one dad I occasionally hang out with. He works in venture, so I asked whether he ever felt the same financial FOMO I’d been struggling with since returning.
He shrugged. “Kinda, but not really.” Why would he? He spends his days looking for the next big winner, so opportunities are always flowing across his desk. Though he did mention once passing on a company that went on to be a huge success.
That surprised me. If anyone should feel FOMO, it’s investors who had the chance and said no, far worse than never getting a look at all, which is the reality for most of us. If I never had the opportunity, then there was no missing out in the first place. But it also made sense he didn’t feel much financial FOMO since he was already immersed in the hunt for more.
We kept chatting. He asked how my summer had been, so I shared some stories from our time away. Naturally, I asked about his summer too, expecting to hear about some big trip since his family had traveled a lot before. But instead, he told me they hadn’t gone anywhere. He’d been too busy working. Two months into summer, and he was still grinding away.
That was my “ah hah” moment. Suddenly, my financial FOMO evaporated. Here was someone, at least twice as wealthy as me, stuck at home because of work. It reminded me of my banking days, when I had to ask for permission to take vacation—like a kid asking his parents for pocket money. What a crock!
I’m sure his hard work this summer will make him millions more. But he’s already rich. At our age, I don’t want to sacrifice too much time with my kids for incremental wealth that won’t materially change our lifestyle. 18 summers isn’t a lot. I’ve got enough passive income to cover our family’s basic needs. That freedom, I was reminded, is worth more than chasing the next big score.
The Six Steps To Reducing Your Intense FOMO
Financial FOMO comes from comparison, insecurity about our own progress, and the fear of missing a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. It tends to peak during bull markets, when it feels like everyone else is getting rich except you.
I’m not sure anybody is truly immune to financial FOMO. You can be wealthy, financially independent, retired, or even work in venture capital, and still feel it. But FOMO left unchecked can push you into bad investment decisions, such as buying at peaks, overextending on margin, or constantly second-guessing yourself.
Here are six tactical yet practical steps that may help you manage FOMO better:
1) Build a Core Portfolio You Rarely Touch
One of the best ways to combat FOMO is to remind yourself that you already own a piece of the future. If you’re invested in equities, real estate, Bitcoin, or venture, you’re covered. Even holding something as simple as the S&P 500 means you’re participating in the ongoing growth of our economy. The exact mix of your asset allocation is up to you. What matters most is having a stake in assets that can carry you forward, so you don’t feel pressured to chase every hot new opportunity.
I keep the bulk of my public equity investments in broad index funds. Meanwhile, about 40% of my net worth in real estate, and 15% in private companies.With a solid core, it becomes much easier to tune out the noise and ignore the hype cycles.
For example, if AI truly sparks a wave of IPOs, new startups, and thousands of newly minted millionaires, at least my San Francisco real estate should benefit. I recently experienced a rental bidding war for one of my properties and that’s before the AI IPO wave has even arrived. Investing in the picks and shovels helps ensure you will financially benefit, no matter what.
2) Allocate a “FOMO Fund”
Instead of trying to suppress the urge to participate, give yourself permission, but with guardrails. Roughly 40% of my public equities are in individual growth names, mostly tech. This way, when I see headlines about breakthroughs, like quantum computing, I feel like I’m part of the story rather than left on the sidelines. Of course, during the next correction, I will also lose more than the average index fund investor too.
I’ve also carved out a dedicated “FOMO Fund”—about 5% of my overall portfolio—for speculative money. That’s where I can dabble in individual private companies, new venture funds, or even short-term trends. If it pays off, great. If not, it won’t derail my financial plan. By containing the risk, you scratch the itch while protecting your long-term wealth.
3) Systematize Your Investing With Automation
One reason FOMO hits so hard is because investing often feels optional and emotional. A simple antidote: automation. Dollar-cost averaging into index funds, ETFs, individual stocks, or funds removes the decision-making stress. When money flows into the market on a schedule, you don’t sit around debating whether to chase the next hot stock. Instead, you’re already steadily invested, no matter what the headlines say.
For example, after opening a new personal Innovation Fund account earmarked for my kids with $26,000 ($500 bonus if you invest over $25,000), I enrolled in auto-invest at $2,500 a month. It’s enough out of my cash flow to feel involved without feeling strain. One year later, that’s $30,000 invested; after 10 years, $300,000.
Without automation, it’s easy to fall off track because life gets busy. I have over 30 investment accounts to manage between the four of us. Inevitably, I’m going to miss something, which is why automation is so important to free up mental bandwidth.
I’m concerned my kids may have little chance of becoming financially independent on their own in an AI-driven, hyper-competitive world. Therefore, every dollar I automate for them helps reduce that concern, while ensuring their money is working even if I get distracted.

4) Use Opportunity Cost as a Filter
Before jumping on the next hot idea, I try to ask: What am I giving up if I do this? Am I sacrificing cash flow, peace of mind, or time with family? Am I risking capital I’ll need in five years for housing, education, or flexibility? During bear markets, I certainly get a little more moody. By forcing yourself to weigh trade-offs, you realize some FOMO-driven decisions don’t actually pass the test. I
As someone who enjoys investing more than spending, this opportunity cost exercise often flips for me. I tend to think instead: What is the opportunity cost of spending money on something I don’t really need versus the potential returns if I invested it? Buying this unnecessary $120,000 Range Rover could turn into $300,000 in five years if invested well!
Still, the reality is that not all investments work out, especially the most speculative ones. Corrections and bear markets are a natural part of investing. Which is why it’s worth asking a different version of the question too: What are the joys I’m giving up today in exchange for an investment that may never pan out? That balance helps keep you grounded, whether you lean toward spending or investing.
Losing Money Quickly
Just look at the Figma IPO. I suspect FOMO drove many investors to pile in on day one, paying $100–$133 a share. Fast forward just a few weeks, and the stock is already down about 40% from its peak. I would much rather have spent $25,000 on a memorable family vacation than invested it in Figma and watched $10,000 vanish in two weeks. YOLO!
Chasing hot IPOs at extraordinary valuations is dangerous, so please be careful. Instead, consider investing in these companies before they go IPO so you can sell to investors who experience maximum FOMO.
Always remind yourself that you can and will lose money when it comes to investing in risk assets. Sometimes, this fact is easy to forget during a bull market.

5) Define “Enough” Clearly
FOMO often creeps in when you don’t have a clear baseline for what success actually means to you. If your target is always a vague “more,” then no matter how much progress you make, someone else will always appear to be ahead – whether it’s their bigger house, higher net worth, or latest hot investment. That mindset makes contentment impossible.
What helps is defining enough. For me, that’s when passive income reliably covers our family’s basic living expenses. Once that box is checked, every dollar beyond is truly optional. I can put it toward growth investments, donate it, or try to spend it guilt-free on experiences.
After I hit a passive income target, I try and shift my mindset back toward an early retirement lifestyle. This means less striving, more enjoying. Anchoring to “enough” quiets the noise, and reminds me that I’ve already got enough.
Once you know your number and can sustain your lifestyle, you realize chasing endlessly isn’t freedom, it’s another form of bondage.
6) Change Your Environment
Finally, FOMO isn’t just about the markets, it’s about the people around you. Living in go-getter cities like San Francisco or New York means you’re constantly surrounded by the most ambitious and competitive people. Many of whom are making big money in tech, finance, or startups. The conversations, the headlines, even the birthday gatherings, it all feeds into a sense that you’re in this constant battle where you’re often falling behind.
One way to dial that back is to physically change your environment. Moving to, or even spending extended time in, a slower-paced city or town gives you space to breathe. Suddenly, not everyone is talking about the latest IPO or AI fundraise. Conversations shift to family, community, or quality of life.
It doesn’t mean giving up ambition or opportunity, you can still build wealth anywhere. But by lowering the ambient noise of competition, you reduce the constant comparison game that fuels financial FOMO.
Final Thoughts On Getting Rid Of FOMO
Markets will always swing from euphoria to despair, and there will always be someone making more money than you. But with a sound core portfolio, a small space to take punts, and a clear definition of enough, you can stay disciplined while still scratching the investing itch.
FOMO doesn’t disappear, but with the right systems, it can be managed so it doesn’t manage you.
Readers, do you experience financial FOMO? If not, how do you manage it so you don’t feel like you’re constantly missing out on financial gains? Interestingly, the vast majority of people I speak with in real life say they don’t really struggle with financial FOMO. That makes me curious — what strategies do you use to tame this beast?
Invest in AI So You Don’t Get Left Behind
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I recently opened a new account for my children with $26,000 and will auto-invest $2,500 a month for the foreseeable future. My hope is that by riding the AI wave, they’ll benefit from the very disruption that might otherwise work against them.
Fundrise is a long-time sponsor of Financial Samurai, and Financial Samurai is an investor in Fundrise products. Our investment philosophies are aligned. Overall, I’ve invested more than $350,000 in Fundrise Venture.

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