The old saying goes, “Happy wife, happy life,” but one upset woman is claiming her husband isn’t quite living by that mantra.  

Amy, 31, revealed on Reddit’s “TrueOffMyChest” forum on Feb. 9 that she’s at her “wit’s end” with her husband, 32, his “work wife,” 30 and “his complete inability to see what’s happening” among the three of them. 

“I need to know if I’m going crazy here,” she wrote. “Where do I even start? Three years ago, my husband Mark started working with Sarah. At first, I tried to be welcoming. I invited her to our BBQs, included her in group outings and genuinely tried to be friendly.”

“Big mistake,” Amy emphasized, before recalling, “She spent the entire time making backhanded comments about everything from my career (‘Oh, you’re just a yoga instructor? How … peaceful.’) to my cooking (‘I guess not everyone can master basic seasoning.’).”

More recently, in January, Amy noticed an anniversary mug she gifted her husband was no longer at his work desk when she visited his office.

Amy’s husband told her that Sarah had “accidentally” knocked it over, causing the mug to break, so he threw it away.

“When I got upset, Mark said I was being too sensitive,” Amy remembered, adding, “IT WAS A MUG WITH OUR WEDDING PHOTO ON IT.”

She noted Mark said Sarah didn’t think the mug “fit the office aesthetic.”

The wife wrote that “the real problem” is he thinks Sarah is “just being funny.”

Listing some of Sarah’s “greatest hits” that have irked her, Amy wrote: “She scheduled a ‘mandatory’ work dinner on our anniversary. She convinced Mark not to take a promotion because it would mean working with a different team.” Continuing, she added, “She posts daily photos of them together with hashtags like #WorkPowerCouple and #WorkSpouse. She tells everyone at their office that she takes better care of him than I do. She changed his coffee order and now tells everyone she ‘trained him right.’ ” 

“The worst part? My husband is completely blind to all of this,” the wife explained. “Yesterday, he actually told me about how Sarah said our new house (which we spent months searching for) was ‘charming, in a starter home kind of way.’ He repeated this while LAUGHING.”

In response, Amy said Sarah described her as “just insecure.”

“She’s managed to insert herself into every aspect of our lives. They text constantly — even on weekends,” the wife wrote. “She knows his schedule better than I do. She rearranged his entire desk and office wardrobe because his style was ‘too suburban husband.’ THAT’S WHAT HE IS!”

Recently, Amy recommended marriage counseling to her husband. 

“He looked genuinely confused,” she recalled. ”He of course went and talked to Sarah about it. I found out from another coworker that she’s been telling people that Mark and I are ‘going through a rough patch’ and that she’s ‘just being a good friend by giving him someone to talk to.’ We weren’t going through anything until she started this nonsense!”

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Amy added that she reached her “breaking point” during a recent office visit. 

“I stopped by his office to surprise him with lunch (it was his birthday and Sarah was supposedly out sick),” she wrote. “Guess who was there? Sarah. She’d ‘miraculously recovered’ and bought him a cake that said, ‘To my work hubby,’ with a photo of them from the office holiday party.”

“She saw me and said, ‘Oh, Amy! You came too … how nice. Mark, you didn’t tell me your real wife was coming!’ I’m not crazy, right?” Amy wondered. “This woman is trying to destroy my marriage while my husband stands there grinning like it’s all some big joke.” 

Seeking outside opinions, Amy then asked the Reddit forum, “What do I do? Divorce seems extreme, but I’m running out of options here.“

Within 24 hours of sharing her story, the post garnered nearly 2,000 responses, with commenters providing advice on what she should do next.

“There is always going to be women like this out there. It’s how your husband reacts that is the problem,” one person replied. “His blatant and constant disrespect is totally unacceptable and the fact that he’s ignoring your feelings on this means you need to now make him see how serious you are. If you don’t change up how you’re reacting and show him you mean business, he’s not changing at this point.”

A second reader noted that “Sarah is not the problem” and that “your husband doesn’t respect your vows or you.”

Another Redditor concluded, “You’d be right to offer a final ultimatum, but honestly if it’s coming to that, just chose yourself first. You deserve better. It’ll be hard but you won’t have these shitty feelings.”

Mama, she’s in love with a (former) criminal.

Britney Spears was spotted enjoying a low-key date night with her ex-convict boyfriend, Paul Richard Soliz, on Valentine’s Day.

The “Toxic” singer, 43, and Soliz drove around Los Angeles together. And because they had his kids with them, they went casual for dinner by grabbing fast food at Jack-in-the-Box.

Later, they made a stop so Soliz could buy Spears flowers.

Spears and her on-off boyfriend appeared in good spirits during their outing, as they were seen laughing in the car together.

This new outing comes a week after the Princess of Pop and Soliz were spotted at an indoor playground in San Fernando Valley, Calif., with two of his children.

Page Six broke the news in August 2023 that Spears was spending a lot of time with Soliz, whom she initially hired to perform maintenance duties around her multimillion-dollar mansion, following her split from Sam Asghari.

While an insider initially told us they were “concerned” for the singer since Soliz has a criminal history — he was previously charged with multiple misdemeanors and a felony — she doesn’t seem to be too alarmed by his past run-ins with the law.

They have had their fair share of drama throughout their relationship, though.

In May 2024, an ambulance was called to the Chateau Marmont after Spears and Soliz allegedly had a dispute at the hotel. Two months later, the “Gimme More” singer revealed she was “single as f–k.”

Just weeks later, however, they reunited for an outing with his kids at a trampoline park.

While the licensed contractor has nine kids in total, we’re told he only has custody of three of his children. Spears, meanwhile, shares two kids with ex-husband Kevin Federline — sons Sean Preston, 19, and Jayden James, 18.

Nicole Kidman is a fan of Charli xcx‘s latest fashion statement — and it’s easy to see why!

In an Instagram Stories post on Saturday, Feb. 15, the Babygirl actress, 57, shared a screenshot of one the pop star’s recent TikTok videos in which she wore a white T-shirt featuring three photos of Kidman with the word “NICOLE” emblazoned across it.

“Looks like I need to get myself a #brat shirt now @charli_xcx 😂💚,” Kidman captioned the screenshot.

Charli shared two TikToks featuring the graphic tee on Friday, Feb. 14, one of which showed her dancing around a bathroom, filming herself as she sang along to Clairo’s song “Sofia.”

In another clip in which she was wearing the T-shirt, the singer-songwriter spoke candidly about playing Laneway Festival in Australia on Friday alongside Clairo, 26, and being inspired by her music to try out an acoustic album, in contrast to her recent hyper pop-inspired Grammy-winning album BRAT.

“It got me thinking, what if we made a record with guitars and strings or both?” she said in the video.

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Charli and Kidman’s support for each other goes both ways. The “365” singer has previously been candid about her love for several of the actress’ films, including her 1995 comedy-thriller To Die For, which tells the story of a small-town weather reporter named Suzanne Stone who decides to have her husband murdered in order to make it as a big-time news anchor.

In June 2024, Charli hosted a film series at the Roxy Cinema in New York City which showcased some of her inspiration for BRAT, which was released later that month. She shared that Kidman’s hilarious but self-centered character inspired her album.

“All of these films in some way link to the world of BRAT,” she said at the time. “Whether it’s Suzanne Stone’s extreme desire for attention in To Die For or the story of rivalry and lust between musicians in The Velvet Goldmine… there are things in there that directly link to the energy of BRAT.”

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Following the musician’s wins at the 2025 Grammy Awards — which included wins for best recording package, best dance/electronic album and best dance pop recording for her single “Von dutch” — she seemingly took another page out of Kidman’s book by stepping into several film roles.

According to Deadline, Charli has been cast in the upcoming drama thriller The Gallerist alongside Natalie Portman, Jenna Ortega, Sterling K. Brown and more. She is also set to helm the film I Want Your Sex along with Olivia Wilde, and was also featured on the soundtrack of Elizabeth Banks‘ latest film Skincare (after the pair previously collaborated on the soundtrack for the 2023 raunchy comedy Bottoms).

“I’m so excited for BRAT summer,” Banks told PEOPLE in August 2024. “It’s the best.”